We love God because he first loved us. (1 John 4:19) But what does it mean to love God? Can an atheist love God? It would seem not, since he that comes to God must believe in him. (Hebrews 11:6) But have you ever heard an atheist say that they just believe in one fewer god than the monotheist? The atheist that says this doesn’t really understand the difference between monotheism and polytheism. The polytheists of the Roman days felt that monotheists like Jews and Christians were more akin to atheists than themselves. This is because the nature of the polytheistic gods is substantially different from the God of monotheism. Personally, I kinda wish we had different terms for the monotheistic God and polytheistic gods.
But, why? Why would both polytheists and Christians count the Christian as more similar to atheist than polytheists? If there were a movement to restore both true polytheism and early monotheism to their previous glory, would modern atheists side with monotheists of the first centuries or the polytheists?
We do have modern atheists that do try to kind of revive polytheistic practice. Or at least in theory. Some of these get tied up in movements like Wicca, others try to be wholly independent. It’s kind of strange. When you look at a lot of ancient polytheistic systems, once they start to mix with philosophy they often start to move towards monotheism. There are various reasons for this: the idea of two equally all-powerful beings who compete for supremacy doesn’t really make sense. Even when you look outside the classic Abrahamic faiths, Platonism was tending towards more monadist or monotheistic thought in the first few centuries of the Christian era even before the rise of Christianity. (Maybe I’ll start calling the Christian God the Christian Monad just to upset everyone. While there are differences between the Platonic Monad and the Christian God, they’re not overly relevant for the current conversation.) Similarly, Hinduism has had strong growing Monotheistic or Monadist thought centers. This has led some to the conclusion that monotheism and monadism are more advanced and accurate expressions of theology and philosophy than polytheism in the same way that Germ Theory is the more advanced form of medicine than Miasma Theory. Not everyone is convinced. There’s also people who argue that monotheism and monadism are the religious thoughts most associated with the most primitive people, too. So that’s an interesting web for someone else to untie. At any rate, whether it’s more advanced or more primitive, there is a tendency for deep, philosophical, well studied theology to tend toward the common understanding of a single, all powerful, moral arbitrator who created and maintains the universe.
So with that in mind, how much do we have to get right about God to properly love him? Is a Neo-Platonist Monadist that sees the Greek and Roman deities as analogies and reflections of The One and uses the unity of mankind to guide his charity and goodwill “good enough?” What about the Christian that has memorized the Bible and uses the teaching he finds there to justify hoarding his food stores as the community around him experiences unprecedented famine and starvation?
This has been a difficult nut for the church to crack since Justin Martyr. To me, it seems there are three corners. In one corner, there are those that believe that if you have joined the right church and celebrated the right sacraments, everything else is just extra. In another corner, there are those who think that if you accept the right dogmas and believe them strongly enough, everything else is just extra. In the last corner are those that think that if you do enough morality, then everything else is just extra. Most views on how you love God are going to be some mix of variations on these.
Each of these three have their scriptural and philosophical strengths and weaknesses. I think there’s an error in discounting any one of these three completely. It’s also rare to find someone who has thought this through deeply and backed themselves into one of the three corners completely. For me, the final answer lies not so much in what you’ve done as in who you are. When I say to have faith, I’m not talking about subscribing to a series of theological and historical facts. That doesn’t then render the theological and historical facts useless. When I say to obey God, I’m not talking about a list of rules. That doesn’t mean the list of rules is pointless. When I talk about performing the sacraments, I don’t mean that it matters which recipe or holiday cycle you follow. That doesn’t mean that you can do it without a recipe or a holiday cycle.
So let’s take each corner in turn and give its strengths and weaknesses. You should belong to the right church. Christ tells us that his church built upon the rock of his choosing will prevail against the forces of Hell. (Matthew 16:18) God has set the orders of authorities within his Church. (1 Corinthians 12:28) It is Christ’s church which will be put above all things in the end. (Ephesians 1:20-23) Past that, don’t you want to be a part of the solution rather than the problem? Don’t you want to surround yourself with people that love good and are repulsed by evil? However, the parable of the wheat and tares strongly implies that the church isn’t going to be easy to identify. (Matthew 13:24-30) Further, even the Apostolic Church under Paul and John had erroneous people teaching heresy and evil. (Revelation 2:20) And even if the Apostolic Church didn’t have errors, the modern church is hopelessly split into dozens of entities, each claiming to be the one and only church.
Leaving that where it stands for now, you should believe in the right dogmas. After all, those who do not believe cannot please God. (Hebrews 11:6) Even if it weren’t about pleasing God, isn’t it better to believe the things that are right and disbelieve things that are incorrect? That said, the demons do believe and it doesn’t do them any good. (James 2:19) As C. S. Lewis said in his Reflections on the Psalms, “Of all bad men religious bad men are the worst.”
Leaving that where it stands for now, you should do good things. After all, people will know to glorify God when they see your good works. (Matthew 5:16) We are even created in Jesus for good works. (Ephesians 2:10) Yet no one will be justified by their works. (Galatians 2:16) Indeed, we are justified while we were sinners, not saints. (Romans 5:8)
So where does that leave us? We must belong to the right church, but can’t ever find it. We must believe the right things, but without knowing what they are. We need to do good, but no good will come from it. That is a tidy little paradox. That is, if we’re approaching the question correctly.
Let’s return to a previous point. What is the difference that makes polytheists lump monotheists and atheists in together? And why would monadists get lumped in with us, even when they see many gods?
I know what I see when I look at atheists that sparks kinship against polytheists. The reason that many polytheists hope there are many gods out there to worship is so that they can play them off each other. They learn their genealogies and their likes and their dislikes, their marriages, divorces, and affairs, all in the hopes of better understanding the politics of the unseen. If we know that Zeus and Hera are divorced and jealous over each other, then we might entice Zeus by threatening to give something to Hera. But the Monotheistic God, the Monad, and the Chief God of henotheism, can’t be persuaded by that kind of jealousy. It has no ex-consort to provoke. Of course, there are distinctions between God and the Monad, and between monotheists and atheists. But if I’m choosing who to spend eternity with in a divine city and all I know are the religious association or lack thereof, I’m going to be picking fellow monotheists first, then henotheists, then monadists, then atheists. After that it gets hard. I know that these groups are less likely to try to play politics with the divinities in this divine city. While there are exceptions, those in my list will be the ones most likely to argue over the proper title for our incorporeal, immortal city council is “gods” or “angels,” and then we will judge whether they act morally or not. Those in the polytheist end will argue more over who is related to whom and start jockeying to get a superior position then me by kissing up to the immoral decisions of these rulers. You see, you love the gods the same way you love a corrupt politician: by bribes, flattering, and intrigue. You twist their emotions to suit you, and learn how to manipulate them to get what you want.
Monotheism is different. As Abraham Lincoln once famously said, God isn’t on our side, so all that remains is to be on his side. He can’t be bought, provoked to jealousy, or overpowered into doing anything. He doesn’t need us like the polytheistic gods need their worshipers. He was there before us and will continue after us. He’s even sufficient company for himself, so he didn’t even create us out of loneliness.
Personally, I think this is why religious attitude tends towards the monotheist end. Seeing order and structure in the world, we seek the gods and then try to play politics with them. Playing politics fails over and over. When people realize that you can’t play the unseen powers against each other, this leads naturally to the conclusion that there’s only one or that there’s one at the top they all answer to or spring from or whatever. Even modern attempts at detecting God are political, and that’s why they fail. They start with the statement, “If God really wants…” as if God would ask us for the things he wants. (Psalm 50:12) They are using the polytheistic attitude to try to detect the Monotheistic God.
Have you ever had a friend that is really hard to buy for because they just get whatever it is they want? My dad is like that. He does so much for me that I always struggle when Christmas and his birthday come around. When I get him something, it’s not always expensive and it’s not always useful, but it is always aimed at his particular tastes and interests. That doesn’t mean that I never catch lunch or dinner when we’re out or that there haven’t been a few expensive tools in his metaphorical Christmas stocking. Even if it is expensive and useful, it’s aimed at his interests. The way that I know what my dad’s interests are is by spending time with him, talking with him, and working with him. It’s not the politics of polytheism, trying to manipulate his emotions so he’ll help me. It’s genuine love and interest in thanks for all he’s done.
In stark contrast, I had a friend one time that fell on hard times. I happened to be at a point in my life where I was doing well, and I helped out. He didn’t even have to ask for money. I knew what kind of problems he was having and I was happy to help. As time went on, we spent less and less time hanging out, because he felt guilty about the money he relied on from me. I told him that I was happy to help and that I didn’t want to see a friend fall into hard times if I could help. Over time, he drifted away until the only time he contacted me was when he needed money. At that point, I was less likely to give him money. You see, I had other friends that were spending time with me, talking with me, and working with me. I really knew what kind of trouble they were in. They didn’t even have to ask for money. But by the time he called to request money, all my charity had been given.
It reached a point where he didn’t like me any more, he liked what I could do for him. Sure, he would flatter me and ask about my kids when he called, but I could tell that he was playing politics with me. Eventually, I told him to stop calling.
What we should do is get to know God. We should try to find out what he wants. We should talk to him. We should work with him. When we see God working towards something, that’s what we should work towards. We should do this out of a sense of love and to thank him for what he’s done.
But here’s something to think about: I don’t always get it right when I’m buying a present for my dad. Sometimes I mishear him. Sometimes I get him something only to find that he’s gotten it for himself. I get him the wrong size or style not even realizing what the difference is. But my dad knows it comes from a good place. It’s not like those that try to play him against me or just get him a generic gift. He can forgive me.
Jesus is there to show us what God is like, but we’re going to get it wrong sometimes. But there are two kinds of people. There are those that got it wrong because they don’t actually care. They’re playing politics. They’re doing the thing that they think God wants so that God will get them the thing they think that they want. These people always act surprised when God stops answering their prayers and directing their lives. I’m not. That’s not love, that’s business. Then there are those that get it wrong despite putting the time in and getting to know what God wants. God can forgive that.
So when these two types of people stand at the gate of the Eternal City, one of them only does what God wants because they can get something out of it. They’re going to continue to play politics and try to beat me out of God’s good gifts. They’ll ruin Heaven. Then there are those who do what God says because they want God to be happy. When they get to the Eternal City, these people will only have to hear God say, “That disappoints me,” to stop. They won’t negotiate. They won’t beg. They won’t try to beat someone else to the punch in getting what God is giving out.
This is where I come at things a little differently than others, though. I don’t know what the uncaused first cause or unmoved first mover wants. In fact, to me, what this is likely to want seems to be power. If we are made in the image of God simply in terms of his ability to exercise power over the cosmos, then the greedy and the dishonest who use their greed and dishonestly to accumulate power might be his people. In contrast, if God is the judge of all the Earth (Genesis 18:25) defender of widows and orphans (Psalm 68:5) judge of the living and the dead (Acts 10:42) who will judge the world in righteousness (Psalm 96:13) who is good (Psalm 145:9) in short, if the God we worship is the God of the Moral Argument instead of the Ontological or Cosmological arguments, then this is a God who we can make some guesses as to what he would want. This is the God that is Love. (1 John 4:8) And that brings us around. If the God we are seeking to love is Love itself, then the question we’ve really been trying to answer all along is how do we love Love? What does Love want?
Love wants us to be patient. Love wants us to be kind. Love wants us to stop envying. Love wants us to stop boasting. Love wants us to behave ourselves. Love doesn’t want us looking to go our own way. Love doesn’t want us to get triggered all the time. Love doesn’t want us keeping track of every time we are wronged. Love doesn’t want us to get excited about doing wrong. Love wants us to celebrate what’s true. Love wants us to have strength, faith, hope, and endurance. Love wants us to never stop.
Coming back around to one of the first questions: can an atheist love God? Certainly the atheist that says “I just believe in one fewer god than you do,” has an image in mind more compatible with polytheism than what I’ve described here. The one fewer god they’ve chopped off the end of their list is one that I also didn’t believe in. Obviously I can’t speak for every atheist that shares this belief, but the atheist that says it really is objectively good to do good, to love your enemies, to seek the plight of widows and protect orphans and immigrants and the poor is closer to believing in monotheism than polytheism, at the very least as they existed in ancient times. They’re saying to love Love, even if they don’t recognize God there. Conversely, the Christian that depends on the operations of the church to cover over their evil ways so that they can keep doing them by performing the right ritual or saying the right prayer has more in common with the polytheists of old than with true religion as described by Paul, Peter, John, and James. This type will be surprised to find that God was never obligated to observe their rituals, didn’t mind that their neighbor missed some of the sacraments, and will then be asking some very hard questions about why they chose to keep doing what they knew was wrong.
As I read in an old chess book one time, the rest is tactics.